Your Pattern: The Prover

Deep down, you want to feel chosen and valued in a relationship. Because of that, you may sometimes feel the need to show a man why you would make a great partner.

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You might try to be extra understanding, supportive, and easy to love. You may overlook things that bother you, try to keep the peace, or work harder to make the relationship succeed.

But when a woman is trying to prove her value, a man can often feel it.

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He may notice that you are looking for his approval — and that can quietly lower his attraction. Instead of feeling excited to win you over, he may start to feel like you are the one trying to win him.

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Men usually feel the strongest attraction when they are the ones investing, pursuing, and earning a woman’s affection.

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When you stop trying to prove your worth and allow a man to show his through his actions, the entire dynamic of dating begins to change.