Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men Is Exhausting
And if walking away feels impossible, there’s a reason.
You meet him.
There’s chemistry.
There’s conversation.
There’s potential.
At first, it feels promising.
But then something shifts.
He pulls back.
He stops initiating.
He becomes harder to read.
He’s present… but not really there.
And suddenly, you’re stuck in that familiar place:
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Close enough to hope
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Far enough to feel lonely
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Confused, anxious, and questioning yourself
If this sounds familiar, you’re not imagining it.
Engaging with Emotionally Unavailable Men is Painful
They keep you in limbo.
They don’t give you enough to feel secure — but just enough to keep you invested.
You start overthinking.
You start rationalizing.
You start wondering if you’re being impatient… unfair… too sensitive.
And the most frustrating part?
You see what’s happening —
but walking away feels harder than staying.
But this is what I need you to know
You're not some kind of magnet for unhealed men.
Lots of women encounter them in dating.
But not all women stay.
Some women feel the distance…
notice the inconsistency…
and disengage.
Not because they’re colder.
Not because they don’t care.
Not because they’re better than you.
They simply don’t get stuck.
Which leads to the real question:
Why Does Walking Away Feel So Hard for You?
Why does leaving bring guilt instead of relief?
Why does distance feel threatening instead of clarifying?
Why does staying feel safer than letting go?
This isn’t a willpower issue.
It’s not about boundaries.
And it’s not about “being stronger.”
It’s about an emotional wound —
and a nervous system that learned early on that staying was safer than leaving.
So when you meet emotional unavailability,
your body reacts before your mind can.
That’s what keeps the pattern alive.
This Is Not About Attracting Better Men
It’s about healing the part of you that stays with ones who don't meet your needs.
Introducing the "Dating From Wholeness" workshop.
If this resonates, I want to invite you into my live workshops.
This is where we do the real work — together.
We explore:
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How this emotional wound formed
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What it did to your nervous system
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What happens subconsciously when you meet an emotionally unavailable man
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Why logic shuts down when attachment is activated
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How to rewire this pattern so walking away no longer feels like danger
What You’ll Get
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Live 2-hour workshops every Saturday (12pm - 2pm CST)
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A monthly subscription of $97
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Access to a private affiliated group to connect with other women doing this work
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Replays of previous workshops, since the teaching portion is recorded
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A space that is supportive, structured, and deeply transformative
These sessions are live, interactive, and incredibly powerful.
This Is About Becoming Whole
Not colder.
Not detached.
Not guarded.
Whole.
Because once the part of you that stays is healed —
everything about your dating life changes.
If you’re ready to stop repeating the pattern
and start understanding yourself at a deeper level,
I would love to do this work with you.